Blogging 201, Day Ten: Support Your Community

Today’s assignment: invest in your community by leaving five comments, adding (or updating) a blogroll, and introducing a comment policy.

You’re designing your blog as a hub for your online presence, ready to receive visitors from everywhere and anywhere. Getting them to engage with your content, though, goes beyond thoughtful branding and a solid presence on other online platforms. It’s about making connections.

Building a sense of community around your blog is a lot like making your own home an inviting space where others enjoy lingering for good conversation (and a slice of cake. Or two).

Today’s assignment: invest in your community by leaving five comments, adding (or updating) a blogroll, and introducing a comment policy.

Why do this?

  • Because community is based on voluntary reciprocity. Engaging with others by commenting on and linking to their content — thoughtfully — leads to other bloggers engaging with your blog.
  • Because letting visitors know who your favorite bloggers are is an organic way to extend your brand and develop your blog’s niche.
  • Because setting clear rules on how readers should behave in your comment section fosters lively, respectful discussions.

By now, you’ve probably amassed a respectable number of favorite blogs in the Reader (of course, if you’re looking for some tips on how to explore more topics, we’re here to help). You might occasionally stumble on a great find on Freshly Pressed, or browse the Blogging 201 Blogroll for like-minded bloggers — with hundreds of participants, you’ll be hard-pressed not to find a few.

Reading others’ posts is great in itself — you learn new things, get exposed to more writing styles, and find new ideas for your own posts. But you should also make an effort to engage with at least some of the bloggers whose writing you enjoy. Leave a substantive comment, share a story, or add a pingback in one of your own posts when it makes sense.

We know that it’s sometimes intimidating to break the barrier of silence on a site’s comment section. But there are so many things you can say — from sharing your reaction to the post to asking the blogger to expand on a specific detail. Today, leave five substantive comments on blogs where you’ve never commented before. We know many of your have already been doing this — it’s a great habit to cultivate, and it helps to push yourself beyond the blogs you typically read.

If you already have a blogroll, this is a great moment to edit it: add a few more blogs you’ve recently discovered, remove those who haven’t posted in a while, and tweak the number of links to keep things streamlined.

Next, it might be time for a blogroll to show some sidebar love to your favorite bloggers. Select a few and add them to your Links Menu, then create a Links Widget to make them visible to your readers. It’s important not to simply throw every single blog you follow into the blogroll: this will make for a long eyesore of a widget, and will beat the purpose of making meaningful connections with those bloggers you really connect with. If you’d rather not add another widget, add a “Links I Love” page.

To give your blogroll some extra I don’t know what, consider:

  • Adding hover-over text to the links to give  your links punchy descriptions. “The funniest blog about reptiles on the internet!” “Easy-to-follow tutorials for Renaissance Faire costumes.” You get the idea.
  • Linking directly to a post you love (and think your readers will love) rather than to the blogger’s home page.
  • Splitting your blogroll into categories to help readers get to the content that’s relevant to them — especially handy if you write on a range of topics and have a varied audience.
  • Considering who you link to. Your blogroll is a reflection of what you read and love, not a quid pro quo.

Of course, building stronger relationships with the blogging community means that more and more people will chime in on your content. Make your online home that much more welcoming by making it clear what they should and shouldn’t do while commenting by creating a comment moderation policy.

Here are our commenting guidelines — feel free to crib from them!

You have a great deal of control over how — and even whether — visitors can leave comments. You’ll want to implement a comment moderation policy that matches your temperament, sensibilities, and amount of free time. Make it crystal clear to readers what kinds of comments are unwelcome, whether for their tone, content, or any other pet peeve you might have. (Of course, being all “get off my lawn!” all the time isn’t necessarily the best option, either.)

Once you’ve settled on the parameters for visitors’ comments, make sure they can find them — easily. If it’s a fairly short and simple policy, you could post it to your sidebar in a text widget. Something more involved could call for a comment moderation policy page, which you could link to in your menu.

Either way, remember: your blog is your space, so you set the rules. But it’s also where you want others to feel comfortable, so be sure to set the tone by maintaining a friendly, respectful tone. If you’re unsure, ask you co-bloggers in The Commons.

Editor’s Note: Many of you have been creating or revitalizing social network pages and profiles for you blog over the past few days. Feel free to leave a link to your page/profile on this page on The Commons, so you can more easily find and friend one another.

Show Comments


Comments are closed.

Close Comments


      1. I am still undecided about blog rolls I think at times they can look really messy, jurys out for me at the mo, not ruled out though, Carlenoeldhams one looks great though, but the big ones can be a bit of an overkill or detract from the blogs post info I think x

  1. Adding a blogroll might be an option, but I need to figure out a creative way to break down the categories. Too many blogs I follow are like mine: random, but in a good way. :-)

    1. I like the widget that shows posts that I’ve liked. I prefer this ever-changing showcase of others’ good writing over a blogroll. That being said, I admit that I get a warm, fuzzy feeling any time I see myself on someone else’s blogroll.
      /waves at Sheena

      1. Hi Cyn! I started that not too long ago on my blog. I got the idea from Fish of Gold and have found some other blogs that way through hers and other sites.

        I would like to have a “one stop shop” for everyone…eventually :-)

  2. Reading and commenting the posts in “Freshly Pressed” is one of my favorite things to do at free time. Indeed a lot of posts provided excellent tips to improve writing skills.

    I wonder how those posts were selected onto “Freshly Pressed”?


    1. There are four editors who read a lot of blogs and search Twitter for great writing on We hand-select posts for Freshly Pressed.

    2. i don’t really visit freshly pressed, i always think the posts must have hudnreds of comments and it simply due to time as well but I should make a few mins to do so x

  3. This is a really great idea. If any of you blog on issues relating to women I’d be very interested to read some of your posts.

    My blog is very much about inspiring women and providing a platform for women to share and discuss a variety of things that impact them.

    A lot of my posts are about my personal journey and life experiences as a woman, from relationships, personal struggles, my faith, travels, charity to work etc. Everything I write somehow links to the main issue of being a woman.

    Please visit and let me know what you think, I’ll be sure to visit your blog also :)

      1. Hey i took a look at your blog and commented there :-) If you have time would love a look back. BTW your n ame doesnt seem to link back to a URL that works just so you know I found your blog through the URL you copy pasted x You might want to link your gravatar/avatar up to your current blog that is all x

    1. Hey i took a look at your blog and commented there :-) If you have time would love a look back. BTW your n ame doesnt seem to link back to a URL that works just so you know I found your blog through the URL you copy pasted x You might want to link your gravatar/avatar up to your current blog that is all x

      1. Hi, I just replied to your comment too :). Thank you for spotting that, I’ll make that change now, so it links easily. That’s why I love this community, lovely people looking out for each other…thanks you :)

    1. thats a good idea, ive only been posting since jan this year but i should take a look another thing i need to do is stop emails from blogs as i am getting far too many x

  4. I have not been partaking in this up to now, because i have been blogging for many years. However, I find it interesting that we should support our community. Of course, and I visit my colleagues every day in the daily prompt, sometimes leaving a comment. I used to do a pingback but this has now been disabled. This was a great way of support, I found. However, today at last I discovered the html way of doing it. It takes time and patience, but I hope those in my community that allow pingbacks will be satisfied.

  5. I’ve found that these tips have been the keys to successful blogging for me… however moderate my success may be :)

    One of my favorite things to do is to be the first to comment on a new post in my reader. Likes are find and dandy, but it’s the interaction with other bloggers that really makes this whole thing worthwhile and fun. I’ve made some really great friends on WordPress, and it all started with one of us leaving a comment on a post. Those friendships grow, and that brings a terrific human element to this online life of blogging.

    Here is the link to my main page. This is where I have my social media buttons, and I’d love to connect with each of you through these sites as well –

    1. but it’s the interaction with other bloggers that really makes this whole thing worthwhile and fun.

      We feel the same! Getting to meet the people who are on has been fun for us. We’ve learned a lot too.

  6. Hello,

    I only commented on three blogs from the freshly pressed section, it was hard and I took a lot of time writing the posts, but it felt good! So there’s that!
    Here is my FB page, like it if you like it;-)

    I tend to write comments to the blogs I follow every 3-4 days, and I saw that it increases the hits….


  7. One of the unexpected delights about having a WP blog is the community I’ve become part of. It started to grown on it’s own then I found more bloggers and readers to join in. It is a real joy. We also freely share and ask for guest posts – something I never thought about when I first started this adventure. I’m also amazed by the variety and talent of my fellow bloggers. I’m honored that they follow my somewhat unusual blog ( That said… I’ve been meaning to make a blog roll or at least a page listing my favorite blogging friends. Thanks for the reminder.

  8. I always try to leave a couple comments each week. I just added a new blog to my blog roll. I try to keep it pretty expat and international teacher centered. Are there any other international teacher blogs out there?

    – Amanda

  9. I wish there was a good widget for library thing since I use this site and belong to some groups there. I have two blog rolls. One that I have liked and the other ones that I follow. Splitting my follow blogroll into categories to help readers get to the content that’s relevant to them is a great idea.

    1. The link is to the Commons — which is a private blog for participants in the challenge to use to share ideas and ask questions.

  10. The WP community has been the biggest surprise over the years. If you need to understand something, there’s always someone willing to share. Lots and lots of fascinating stories to read and discussions to observe/participate in.
    One of the easiest way to improve stats is to visit other blogs and leave suitable comments that show you actually read the post.
    I remember when these WP Comment Guidelines first came out – lots of discussions about them. Modify them to suit your whims and your readers. Some blogs welcome long responses with multiple bloggers responding to comments, too. Some blogs feature quick responses. It all depends. Just put on party manners and fit into the crowd.
    Hmmm need to update blog roll…some are MIA now. Developing categories is a great idea – I love the blogs that have that. Seems like last summer a bunch of blogger decided to close out blog rolls to make site look less cluttered – and allow room for other things. (Asked readers to visit commenters’ blogs – as those people were the ones normally in the blog roll). Some started a rolling list so the same blog didn’t always come up as first in the list (always trying to be fair). But yes, the blog roll does need attention time to time.
    See ya’ around the neighborhood

  11. yay! love today’s assignment. i’ll be back later and but look forward to building and connecting with some new faces/pages!

  12. Hello everybody! I have a blog about travel and tourism, but since it is Spanish I am not sure if someone around here would liket to visit it. If you do, I will appreciate your comments to improve the blog. Thank you very much :-) : Have a great day everybody!

  13. This sounds great, having only recently joined the blogging community myself I’m surprised at the number of blogs I’ve found that cheer me up after a long day at work. Its quickly become the part of my day I most look forward to. Don’t forget to check out my blog :)

  14. I don’t know why/if I’m doing something wrong.
    So far I have done most of your guidelines, way before starting blogging 201. I do enjoy visiting other blogs, I always leave a comment other than “I like” or “great post”. I follow other people. I have a blogroll. I reply to comments on my blogs (easy as I don’t have too many) and so on.
    I even opened a twitter account few days ago.
    And yet, I don’t know, since I changed the name of my blog (and despite telling everyone and doing a redirect) and migrated from to, I’ve lost many followers, comments are rare and all that.
    I feel a bit disheartened. Well… lucky that I do not wish to be internationnaly famous eh? :-)

    1. what is the difference between and Also, not sure what this has occurred. For me, I visit many blogs but rarely follow. I do read and leave comments. When it comes to my blog, I revisit those that consistently engage with me. I have a few reasons for this but it would be rather long winded for this page. Actually, I think I will write a post.

      1. is self hosted. Since I have passed a webdesign course, I wanted the freedom to play with themes and maybe build my own without it costing no much more than the domain name. I’m happy with my choice but I’ve lost the sense of community that is built within (easy to follow, share, comment, like, etc.). I feel like I have to do it all over again with less “results”.

    2. okay, so if one uses the option to purchase their domain, they then switch over to I am asking because I was thinking to purchase mine, however, I am not very tech savvy. This workshop has had its frustrating days when it came to playing around with the technical stuff.

      1. basically yes. I did love and for novice, it’s perfect as everything is there on a plate; It’s when you want to have a hand on it, play with the css and all that, that having it self-hosted is sometimes better. But what you may have in freedom of design you loose it in community and spirit.
        Here’s the link again showing the pros and cons :-)

  15. This is a very helpful nudge, and thanks for it. I find I often get so stuck in my head (and noodling with my new WP theme) that I miss reading what else is out there for a few days (or even weeks). Perhaps I should “schedule” some time to explore each week — time in which I’m not allowed to monkey with my own posts.

  16. I’m often finding new blogs to follow and commenting is a daily thing for me. I love checking my reader every day. I also have a blogroll in my sidebar using the Links widget. I updated it today. I have 16 blogs in my blogroll list but I chose to show 12 and rotate them randomly.

  17. This is a great post with great tips! Thanks for sharing. It’s interesting to see what other bloggers do to keep their blog up and running and how successful they are with those tactics. I look forward to the future of my blog!

  18. I’m really behind but still going.

    To date I’ve:
    Changed the entire blog theme and layout this week.
    Done general cleaning up and maintence.
    Added a Best Of tab to the nav and am working on the social media aspect.
    Today is the day I un-veil my blog tagline after asking people
    last week, to cast their vote on the one they liked best.

    Take a look if you’re curious.
    Everything’s at:
    I’m open to any and all suggestions.

    I’m still happy I’m doing this challenge,
    but will need a vacation as soon as it’s over ;)

  19. I used to have a blogroll and ”posts I like” on my blog, but it is being turned into a community blog. I feel that I cannot use these widgets anymore because they only represent my personnal tastes and not those of my colleagues or the purpose of our blog, anymore. The solution will probably be to create a page listing blogs related to anthropology and geek anthropology, or maybe to publish a monthly ”best anthro/geekanthro posts of the month”. Otherwise I suppose I would have to create a second wordpress account?

  20. As usual this is very timely advice and flows nicely on from all the work we’ve been doing up to now. I enjoy reading other blogs and try to make relevant comments when I’m moved to do so. It was one of my goals of doing blogging 201 to improve my interaction with the blogging community and ‘get out more’ so to speak. I’ll be checking out a few of my fave blogs later and hope to find some new ones of interest. Wish there were more hours in the day sometimes, I have square eyes already from all my screen time. Thanks team! :)

  21. Thanks for the great post! I used to blog mainly for family and friends but am now trying to branch out. I’m still looking for bloggers like myself to read and partner with!

    Please check out my blog and let me know what you think. :)

  22. I’ve never really seen the need for a commenting policy. It feels unfriendly to me. Like I’m saying, I’d love to hear what you have to say…but only so long as you say it like it this.
    So far all my readers seem to know how to have polite conversations in the comments, I think most people do.

  23. This is fantastic. Because of this, I added a “Blogs I Follow” grid on my content side-bar for the Twenty Fourteen Theme. Let me know what y’all think of my blog so far.

    Quick Question. Do my “Blog Categories” on the left side-bar look alright or could my blog be dressed up better?

  24. I continue to learn so much to take my blog to the next level. I just might impress my twenty something year old son with my blogging knowledge at the end of Blogging U! Thanks Blogging 201 for all the great ideas. Now… to complete today’s assignment of truly checking out and commenting on 5 other blogs.

  25. It’s funny – my plan for tonight was to surf about other blogs and do some commenting – and then your assignment showed up! Very well timed.

    Other than that, I’m giving some more thought to how to better integrate Pinterest with my blog – so I’m spending a bit of time there over the past few days too….

    As for a commenting policy – I’m not really sold on the need for one, so I’m going to table that suggestion for now.

    As for blog roll – mine does need an update, but I want to give some thought to how to better profile/highlight/categorize the blogs I enjoy. I’m thinking I’ll do a page, just not tonight ;)

  26. I really like the community aspect on here! I write a blog on self improvement, mental health, and productivity and I’d like to interact with people who are into the same thing. Maybe we can guest blog for each other? Check my site out and let me know. Thanks

      1. Thanks for taking the time to check it out! I’m way behind on this 201 project. I’ve still got to get my menus figured out, add some more content etc.

        The stats thing got me thinking about my consistency….I’ve been writing about career changes and productivity but lately I’ve been writing about my mental health issues and a random funny post about kids on planes got the most traffic so far.

        For a fairly new blogger do you guys think it’s better to play around with a couple of different subjects until you find your voice?

  27. I did this a few days ago after reading one of the worpress ebooks, I decided to add on the about me page, with 5 links to wordpress bloggers and 5 to non wordpress blogs I read.

      1. I like how you’ve done your blogroll, Jacob! Being selective, in showing six of your favorite reads is a wonderful endorsement for those sites — showing this select list doesn’t overwhelm the main content area and the images fit in well with Twenty Fourteen, your theme.

  28. I’ve not done a blog roll as the jury is out with me whether i like them or not. I do however promote other bloggers often in putting their links in to other posts that I write etc. I have a commenting and copyright policy which I put in a text widget. I set up twitter and facebook for my other blog:

    which by the way if anyone could go and take a peek I would really appreciate it, but have not set up fb nor twitter for this blog yet, why? Because I am not sure of the time to maintain it, whether I have that time, as I already have Pinterest, twitter linked up to this blog. :-)

    On commenting, I had 38 comments this morning LOL, it took me nearly an hour to reply, one of my problems is i talk to much and i end up chatting with my blogosphere friends rather than writing, I need to curtail myself a bit.

    I still need to write up a posting/social network and actual kids/homelife diary too, which is in progress :-)

    Happy blogging…ps if anyone has time to look at my eclectic blog and comment which this avatar is linked to, I would love it ;D

    1. This is awesome! I am a huge believer in giving back to the community – especially the online community as well. I typically follow those whom follow me and promote niche blogs.

      Looking at your site has given some insight and perspective on the future of my blog.


  29. Hi friends,

    I was unable to do assignment nine as I could not find the other places where I could publish my blog. I am awaiting on two approvals which might take two weeks, also I have started learning twitter. 35 tweets down, 20 retweets down, 6 trends, 5 comments, so engaging a bit more.

    Feel quite drained as just finished a post, not catching up with 40 unread messages.

  30. Day 10 – Support Your Community

    1. On word press engaged withe 10 bloggers, commented on about page, their posts, replied to all the comments, etc.

    2. Facebook – Chose 5 fans of my page who were online, had a chat with them, liked their status, commented on their wall.

    3. Did 5 tweets, followed masterchef and ramsay. Masterchef Australia favorited my tweet of can’t wait.

    4. Google + many people dont use. But sent a message to five. Read two of their blogs and commented on that. No one replied there :(

    Overall a productive assignment. :)