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Weekly Writing Challenge: Mind the Gap

Our blogs are platforms from which we share our experiences, opinions, and views with the online world. For Mind the Gap challenges, we want to hear what you think about a divisive issue. Each challenge will include a poll where you can cast your vote along with your fellow Daily Post participants. After you vote, tell us more about how you feel by expanding on the topic in a blog post. Be sure to visit other participants’ posts to get some healthy discussion going.

To participate, tag your posts with DPchallenge and leave a link to your post in the comments. Please be sure your post has been specifically written in response to this challenge; obvious attempts to link-bait will be deleted. We’ll keep an eye on the tag and highlight some of our favorites on Freshly Pressed each Friday.

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There’s no shortage of contentious political events we could use for this week’s Mind the Gap challenge—it’s nearly impossible to be online for more than 0.2 seconds before seeing something about the upcoming U.S. presidential elections. (If you’ve figured out how to avoid it, please tell us!)

Instead, we thought we’d try another topic, something people don’t get quite so worked up about and that’s not U.S.-centric: kids.

Everyone loves kids, right? Right! Except when they don’t.

This week, we’re particularly interested in what you think about kids in adult-oriented places. I think most of us can agree that it’s not a good idea to drag little Sally to a bar at 1AM, but what about a museum? A fancy restaurant?

As always, we’re looking forward to reading your interesting, well-reasoned arguments—if you’re going to insult parents or condemn anyone under age 18, we’ll pass.

We hope that you visit fellow challenge participants’ posts for all challenges, and especially encourage you to do so for Mind the Gap. Let the debate begin!

229 Comments
  1. I had fun thinking about this challenge :)

    Here’s my take on it : http://polypurpose.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/weekly-writing-challenge-mind-the-gap/

    Thanks to anyone that checks it out!

    October 24, 2012
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      October 24, 2012
  2. so my blog was pretty mild i thought, but it is in the comments section where the real discussion has started to take off so please stop by and leave your opinion [http://brettfish.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/hey-i-just-met-you-and-this-is-crazy-but-could-you-please-look-after-your-baby] – there is some crazy good stuff happening in there…

    October 24, 2012
  3. http://mindthechild.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/awestruck-by-children/

    i adore children, so I voted to hire a babysitter because I think it is usually what is best for all concerned. Please visit my blog to hear all of my good reasons.

    October 24, 2012
  4. Is it cheating to have two posts this week? I didn’t mean to, I just had so much to say. Here is number 2 –
    http://talkaboutcheesecake.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/are-weddings-a-child-free-zone/

    October 24, 2012
  5. Traveling husband, snow up to the eyeballs, new city, no friends and no trusted babysitter. What’s a mother to do when her hubby offers to take the family to dinner?http://wp.me/p1B5ek-R2

    October 24, 2012
    • Most pizza parlors are very kid friendly. Don’t like pizza? What about Long John Silvers, Chevy’s, Chili’s, Denny’s, IHOP, Red Robin, Spaghetti Factory, Applebees, Lumberjack, Perkins, Coco’s…………?

      October 24, 2012
      • I hear you. Hope that works for you

        October 24, 2012
  6. I’m only slighly apologetic when it comes to my dislike of being near children http://dearandersoncooper.wordpress.com/

    October 24, 2012
  7. I wrote about kids in that most adult-oriented of all places – the workplace. Would YOU bring your kids to work if you could? (Thanks for the challenge!) http://humanrightswarrior.com/2012/10/25/mind-the-gap-would-you-bring-your-children-to-work/

    October 25, 2012
  8. I take my son everywhere, and he never misbehaves. If he does I take him out of the room, deal with it and bring him back in. I hate the dirty looks. I’ve seen adults who are more rude than my son’s laugh. http://militarybride.wordpress.com/2012/10/23/weekly-writing-challenge-leave-my-kid-at-home-i-think-not/

    October 25, 2012
    • Which is it? Your son never misbehaves or you take him out of the room and deal with it when he does? If you’re getting dirty looks, could it be that other adults don’t have the same subjective opinion about your son’s laugh? If you hate the dirty looks, why do you keep doing it? I’m really not trying to be flip, I just want to understand.

      October 25, 2012
  9. This was an interesting topic with far ranging responses… As a mom of twins, I was always conscious of where my kids would be comfortable because two crying babies would get people worked up. We picked our outings carefully and stayed away from obvious, adult only places. But my kids were exposed to plenty of social settings because I believe if we didn’t, we’d be interfering with their opportunity to learn. Here’s my post: http://eof737.wordpress.com/2012/10/23/musings-on-tykes-terrible-twos/

    October 25, 2012
  10. justxJosh #

    http://justxjosh.com/2012/10/25/weekly-writing-challenge-mind-the-gap/

    My two cents on the topic.

    October 25, 2012
  11. I voted to not ban children from adult venues, as long as the kids do not act disruptive. It is up to their parents to control these children and teach them manners.
    Real question: Do you know adults who should be banned from adult venues? LOL!

    Here is a poem expressing my views.
    http://grannyslittleprojects.wordpress.com/

    October 25, 2012
  12. Not a proponent of the ‘children should be seen and not heard’ school of thought. Read on for the Soberistas take on this week’s writing challenge….

    http://soberistas.wordpress.com/2012/10/25/cinderella-in-a-restaurant/

    October 25, 2012
  13. I think in general, adult-oriented places are adult-oriented for a reason. But I think the real issue is what a child needs: http://trinabartlett.wordpress.com/2012/10/25/a-perspective-from-the-backseat-of-a-car/

    October 25, 2012
  14. Errrrr, I went in a completely different direction that I think everyone else went, but that’s to be expected, as my mind tends to wander in strange places :) “No Babies at the Strip Club”

    http://crandleberries.wordpress.com/2012/10/25/no-babies-at-the-strip-club/

    October 25, 2012
  15. This is a little snarkier and angrier than my usual. May have touched a nerve. For all the people who say “just hire a babysitter” – you volunteering? Obviously we do from time to time, but it’s expensive and not easy to find a really great one (especially if, totally hypothetically of course, you don’t live near family and have more than one child with special needs). We’d like to participate in society occasionally. And our children would also.

    I titled it: A Mom, a Toddler and a Preschooler Walk into a Restaurant…
    http://soheresus.com/2012/10/25/life-comes-full-circle/

    October 25, 2012
  16. I decided not to respond to this challenge, and yet somehow, I did.
    http://readmepatti.wordpress.com/2012/10/24/my-sort-of-response-to-the-daily-post-writing-challenge/

    October 25, 2012
  17. This challenge brought back some memories as I was always the out of place kid in the adult world. http://janetkoops.com/2012/10/25/weekly-writing-challenge-i-was-that-kid/

    October 25, 2012
  18. Here is my post. It was interesting to think of my own experience as an American child getting into trouble during a trip to England. Things are different here!

    http://tarpfrog.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/raised-by-wolves/

    October 25, 2012
  19. I have a slighlty different take on this topic. Do check it out here
    http://perceptionsofareluctanthomemaker.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/kids-in-adult-oriented-places/

    October 26, 2012
  20. Скъпи приятели,аз моля– да не оставяме тази тема да се изгуби из интернет Ние трябва да поставим въпроса така–децата са бъдещето на нашия свят. Това е много сериозно. Да се опитаме да си представим какво ще се случи след нас. Аз смело мисля, че 21 век е упадъчен и това се отразява на децата, затова ние често не можем да се справим с тях, често чувстваме безсилие. Трябва като удавници да се заловим за обичта – според мен това е първото и последното ни спасение

    October 26, 2012
  21. I really enjoy the weekly writing challenges but like to try and maintain the voice of my blog when I participate in one. Check out my thoughts on the subject, within a Norwegian expat blog context, here: http://edgeofthearctic.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/oslos-mafia-and-their-weird-weaponry/

    October 26, 2012
  22. Hey Daily Press Moderators!

    I thought I wrote a pretty good post and followed some Freshly Pressed guidelines. Commenters and likers of this post also went on over to my post and gave me some likes and comments. How did you guys pick this weeks posts for Freshly Pressed?!

    October 26, 2012
  23. Parenting can be so isolating. Sometimes, the only way to engage in the world is to bring your little one along. They are noisy and messy. I recently tried to bring mine to a college lecture. We lasted 15 minutes. http://thelifeofkylie.com/2012/10/26/its-an-all-ages-event/

    October 26, 2012
  24. Although I didn’t realize this was a topic from a few days ago I still had fun. I can’t wait to work on todays topic it sounds like a blast! Here was my take on kids being in adult-oriented places. Thanks http://dailydadmatters.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/weekly-writing-challenge/

    October 26, 2012
  25. Hello Everyone!

    Well, here is my “rant” and I do mean “rant” :lol: ! http://wp.me/p2zGQ7-vw

    KK

    October 26, 2012
  26. i’ve had a good time with my challenge and an even better time seeing variations on the theme. One particular article was seen through the eyes of an adult remembering the child’s perspective. (number 35 – ‘i was that kid.’
    Here’s a link to mine, not as creative but most opinionated:
    http://marysomnibus.wordpress.com/

    October 27, 2012
  27. Super fun prompt!

    I enjoyed writing it; I hope you enjoy reading it!

    http://sfender.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/mind-the-gap/

    October 27, 2012
  28. I weigh in on Mind the Gap with ” So What’s a Nice Girl Like Me Doing Hanging Out in Bars With My Underage Kids?”
    http://lettersfromdonna.wordpress.com/wp-admin/post.php?post=922&action=edit&message=6&postpost=v2

    October 27, 2012
  29. Hi all

    Looks like I found this thread rather late. Nonetheless I find the topic of kids in adult-oriented places very interesting as I actually find myself in this situation more often than I’d like. I have contributed my 2 cents on my blog. Do let me know your thoughts. http://toxicsweetyspensieve.wordpress.com/2012/10/27/children-in-an-adult-world/

    October 27, 2012
  30. My post, “Baby on Board: Should Flights be Child-Free?” http://takingtotheopenroad.wordpress.com/2012/10/26/1222/ drew fire from friends on Facebook, who commented:

    “If people have a problem with kids on a plane or any other public transportation, then they should probably take the car”

    “Since you can’t predict how kids will act on an 18 hour flight, you’d have to assume that all kids will misbehave, so you would have to deny ALL kids. and since kids 2+ are paying full price, they have just as much rights as the fat guy snoring loudly next to you or the person with the annoying chihuahua”

    Agree, or disagree? Would love to hear others’ opinions.

    October 27, 2012
  31. http://purnimodo.wordpress.com/2012/10/28/little-blond-beggar-girl/ My take – you only have so little time to be a child anyways..

    October 28, 2012
  32. Здравейте приятели! Виждам как заедно се вълнуваме от тази важна тема и в мен се ражда надежда. Не мога да следя пълноценно дискусията, да прочета вашите блогове, защото нямам компютър в къщи.А темата е важна, много важна, ние трябва да стигнем заедно до общи мнения, а защо не и решения В моя блог има някакви предполагаеми отговори. Имам намерение да публикувам още разсъждения в художествена форма, където отново присъства моята искрена загриженост Да не се отказваме от темата, да мислим, да търсим дълбочината на явленията, за да остане след нас един по– добър свят

    October 29, 2012
  33. enjoy and keep

    November 1, 2012
    • Здравейте приятели! Аз се радвам, че темата за децата отново е на дневен ред . И мисля, че с нашето искрено вълнение сме длъжни да достигнем до общи мнения . В България казваме, че една птичка пролет не прави. Моля да ме извините, но в кратките си коментари ми се струва, че сме малко повърхностни. Ние нямаме време да прочетем блоговете, предлагам да бъдем по- обширни и задълбочени в коментарите си . Аз работя с деца от 4 до 18 години, преподавам пиано и имам много впечатления , които ме тревожат . Обичам много децата , това е най-важното условие ,за да практикувам тази професия вече 30 години В моята работа, в това индивидуално обучение на първо място като условие за успех е да установя специфичен контакт със всяко дете. В този процес аз често се натъжавам, защото не виждам присъствието на родителите в тяхното възпитание И смело твърдя, че с очите си виждам отрицателната роля на интернет ,на училището, на улицата, на нашата прекалено хаотична и безлика действителност, на цялото пространство в ефира Имам още какво да кажа. Ние трябва много сериозно да приемем тази тема ,21 век остава за тях .В България казваме- каквото посеем това ще жънем.

      November 1, 2012

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